How to have a Phone-y Paranormal Experience
Back in the Nineties, there seemed to be a burgeoning of TV ads for the chance to phone up a real psychic for personal advice, night or day, and the anthropologist in me became curious. What, I wondered, makes this a profitable enterprise? Well, I was taking a ‘creative nonfiction’ writing course at the time and one week I was hard up for a topic for my next paper. So, I scribbled a number while watching the Sci-Fi Channel; called the next day. I’ve realized this topic fits right in on this blog, since I do want to offer a balanced perspective on the Paranormal. What follows here is a polished rewrite of that essay.
If they drew a line down the middle of the world, skeptics over here, believers over there, I would be over there, with the believers. Not that I believe indiscriminately. I do not know anyone personally who has ever spotted Elvis in the backwoods, or Jesus in a patch of wet plaster on their wall. I am pretty sure that gray aliens are not threatening U.S. security (we’re doing fine at that, all on our own). And I seriously doubt that anybody is really channeling spiritual advice from five-thousand-year-old Lemurian philosophers. Nonetheless, I do believe that there are many types of unseen energies which produce measurable effects on the physical world. Energies like, oh … gravity … electricity … magnetism … light … sound … thought … hate … love … and the immortal bits of us called ‘soul.’
So, I dialed my way into the great unknown. My Psychic Phone Experience started off with a friendly recorded female voice assuring me that I would receive a ‘free sample two minute reading,’ and that each additional minute would pack a $3.99 wallop to my phone bill. That meant the going rate for arcane mental powers was around $240 per hour. Apparently, WAY more profitable than being a psychiatrist, while offering a similar service; and without that pesky requirement to complete years of training, get licensed, and so on.
A friendly male recording greeted me next. “You are about to experience a real psychic reading … get comfortable and enjoy yourself!” it commanded. Soothing piano music followed, briefly.
“First,” instructed my twangy-voice female psychic, “Tell me your first name and when you were born.”
Aha! I think. Right away she’s going to know that I’m a Virgo. This will give her a starting point on which to base some generalizations, which will result in her seeming to know something about me.
I responded with the month and day, reluctantly. “You want the year too?” Of course she did. Age is an equally useful bit of data when making guesses about someone’s life.
Then she got right down to business. “Have you got a specific question?”
I suppressed the urge to say, “Don’t you know? You’re supposed to be psychic.” Instead I played it straight. When being dishonest, it’s always best to tell the truth. I did, in fact, have a real question perplexing me (although not one I needed Help from Beyond to resolve). “Yes, I’m struggling with finding the right graduate school; I want to know where I should be looking.”
There was a pause, while she shuffled and dealt out Tarot cards. Don’t use up too much of my two free minutes, babe, was my prevailing thought.
“Have you been depressed lately?”
Well, no. What’s that got to do with my question, anyway? And come on, honey, how likely is it that someone planning to go to graduate school is in depression? If I were depressed, I’d be slumped in front of the TV, endlessly watching infomercials … oh. Ah. Given who is probably doing most of the phoning-up for this service, this must be a stock question they are told to ask.
“Well, just about this graduate-school thing.”
“Why? What’s the matter?” So sympathetic, right off.
It ran through my mind to come back with, Didn’t they instruct you to be a little more subtle when pumping the customers for info you can feed back to them? But I just told her there were no suitable schools in my area.
Another pause. “You know you’re going to have to travel.”
No cigar, psychic woman; I just told you that. But feigning meekness, I played along some more. “Well, I kinda thought that was a possibility.”
“You’re gonna find one that meets your needs, but it’s not gonna be around where you live.”
Gee that’s twice now, you’ve told me what I told you already, said my inner editorializer.
Now she waxed supportive. “You have a driving ambition to get where you’re going.” A safe assumption to make about anyone who had just graduated from UC Berkeley and was now looking at grad school.
“You’ll have to work very hard.”
Really? In graduate school? Thanks for the tip, Sherlock.
“After that, the world will be at your fingertips.”
Well, that’ll be nice! (The world is still eluding my fingers, by the way.) Another three-ninety-nine’s worth of banal interchanges resulted in me telling her my field was cultural anthropology.
“Oh wow! When I found out you were a Virgo, I thought your degree would be in Accounting.”
Oh, please, honey, I thought, If you’re going to be in this game, try to at least have a little imagination — can you really think that approximately one-twelfth of the world’s population are all accountants? Or would all like to be, if they had any choice in the matter?
“Oh, anthropology, that’s so cool!” Stimulated by this revelation, her psychic gifts suddenly burgeoned. “I see you travelling south — maybe to a site in Central America.”
Site — oops, I think she’s got it mixed up with archaeology. But maybe she did mean a cultural research site. I’d give her that much. On the other hand, I have never had much interest in Latin American cultures, I don’t speak Spanish, and being pretty comfortably settled in life, I had no intention of ever doing fieldwork. That’s why I was looking at a master’s in museum studies.
I considered clueing her in, but instead, let her rack up another four bucks or so rambling on about her own dream of going ‘down there,’ and about her husband having gone to Berkeley, and how all her ‘Mensa-type relatives’ living in the Bay Area. She also got around to showing a dutifully flattering interest in me, expressing admiration for my accomplishment in going to college as ‘an older person,’ and for my choice of majors.
(Yep, ‘older person,’ that’s the way to get on the mark’s good side!) Of course, all this chat was part of the job of stretching those two free minutes into five or ten four-dollar ones; but feeling generous, I finally allowed as how my region of interest was in fact the South Pacific — broadly, about as much of a ‘down there’ from where I was in California, as Central America is. So, maybe she was onto something with the ‘down there’ thing. Although I still wasn’t going to suddenly take off on a field expedition, just to keep her honest.
“Yeah?” she perked up, “I almost said Galapalos (sic); I do know it’s definitely down.” We had gotten so chummy that I didn’t want to embarrass her, let alone call her occult powers into question, by pointing out that the Galapagos Islands are among the few locations on Earth with no indigenous humans, and the tortoises don’t have much of a culture going on.
But those late-night ads were making a lot more sense. I recollected delighted people proclaiming into the camera, “I really felt like I was talking to a friend!” “It was like she really knew me!” “I feel like I have a friend I can call any time I want to get advice and talk about what’s going on in my life!” And there it was. In an increasingly alienated society, a person who is willing to be your best friend for only four bucks a minute ws one of the best deals going.
Ever mindful that my new friend had the meter running, I gently indicated that the consultation should be winding down. “Well, what I really wanted to know, is what action I can take in order to locate the right graduate school, and whether I should expect to leave my home for some time.”
She summoned up a last smidgen of guidance for me from the cards. “You don’t know how spiritual you are … ”
Well, yes, I do, actually.
“If you start asking, you’ll get an answer,” continued my paid psychic.
True, I thought, But that’s what you were supposed to be doing for me all this time, at these prices.
“Can you get to Stanford? I’m getting a strong feeling about Stanford.”
And there we left it. Her psychic powers did not reveal to her, that I would never have Stanford-tuition kind of money in this lifetime. I had a strong psychic feeling that Stanford probably didn’t even have a museum studies program. The following year, I started at Cal State Chico — about as far a cry as you can get from Stanford, within California.
Although I actually read Tarot myself , and I have a certain confidence in astrology, and the paranormal has been a fact of my world since early childhood, I knew before I made that call, that psychic phone readings must be the province of charlatans. But at the time, I actually didn’t know how it worked. So, I did get some useful insights out of it — into how charlatans in general are able to hook people who are eager to be hooked. And I got a lot of insight into how desperately sad and lonely thousands of Americans must have been at that time.
Now, of course, we have Facebook and Twitter, and Blogs, oh my — and nobody has time to be lonely any more. And interestingly, it also seems to me, that the era of Phone Psychics has pretty much passed. I think they have largely moved on to becoming Psychic Animal Communicators — of which we are now developing an increasing abundance. After all, in that field, there’s virtually zero chance that the subject is going to suddenly say, “Wuff, hey, no, that’s not what I was thinking about, you’ve got me all wrong!”
And actually, I have encountered one or two Animal Psychics, on whom the charlatan shoe fits very neatly. They ask the exact same type of leading questions, and do just the same kind of feeding-back what you just said, mixed in with comforting generalities, as did my erstwhile Psychic Friend.
So, readers … caveat emptor. I know there are a small handful of people doing Animal Communication work who are “for real.” And there are a lot more, who are “for profit.” Anyone interested in a further, detailed exploration on the topic of Animal Communication, might like to read Animals and the Afterlife, a nonfiction book reviewed by myself, on this blogsite.
If you like my nonfiction writing, you might also enjoy my romantic paranormal novels. Visit my website for descriptions and purchase details: http://carterhaughbooks.wix.com/patricia-a-leslie; I also have a “culture blog” (comments on films, TV series, YouTube videos, etc) at http://www.facebook.com/TamLinAuthorPage